Negotiations for alimony can sometimes be one of the most critical parts of divorce proceedings. 

Alimony is financial support from one spouse to another after a divorce. 

Whether you are the spouse paying or receiving alimony, the prospect of negotiating alimony can be daunting. How much should you pay in alimony? What factors should a judge consider when deciding whether to grant alimony? The answers to these questions vary based on the laws of your state and the specifics of your case. 

Alimony can either be temporary or permanent. Permanent alimony is also referred to as spousal support and is often awarded in marriages that have lasted a while. Permanent alimony is usually granted when the receiving spouse cannot support themselves financially after the divorce, such as if the spouse was a homemaker. Temporary alimony typically ends when the divorce is finalized, while permanent alimony continues indefinitely.

In some cases, alimony contracts can be outdated and require a review to be renewed. No matter the case, our family law attorneys can help you press for the numbers you desire. 

What You Should Know About Alimony Negotiations 

The court is responsible for determining the appropriate amount of money paid as alimony as part of the settlement. This decision is reached by taking into account the husband’s status and income status, the wife’s needs, and the wife’s status and income status, but this is usually influenced by who is the dependent. 

Alimony may not have been an initial decision in your divorce proceedings, but this does not prevent you from getting a reasonable amount

For the most favorable results from your alimony negotiations. Ensure that you do the following: 

Do not be vicious 

Divorce proceedings are stressful enough, even in cases where it is uncontested. There is no need to raise tensions by being unfriendly. If you enter negotiations from an adversarial position, it is almost guaranteed that the other party will get even more hostile. These kinds of negotiations rarely go as planned. It is wise to be as polite as possible. 

Be patient with negotiations 

Try not to put a timeline on alimony negotiations. If you begin to consider deadlines and such, it presents a new set of challenges. It may even prevent you from getting the settlement you deserve. It mounts pressure on your negotiations, and you may be backed into a corner. Let the schedules be set and proceed as necessary. 

Don’t get too personal 

Emotions are usually high with divorce negotiations but keep in mind that trying to hurt your spouse does not in any way help your position. Even if your ex-spouse is trying to bait you, ensure you keep your calm so that the conflict is visibly one-sided. 

Irrespective of your position and standpoint, divorce negotiations and proceedings can go sour very fast, to the detriment of both parties. If you want a smooth negotiation process, ensure to note all of the above and follow the counsel of your divorce attorney 


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